Wednesday, 22 April 2020

Comparative of 'King Lear', 'Pride' and 'Silas Marner'


Comparative of 'King Lear', 'Pride' and 'Silas Marner'


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 'King Lear', 'Silas Marner' and 'Pride' all deal with a theme of dysfunctional family. The texts reveal families that experience dysfunctionality. In the first scene, Lear starts off by causing an argument between his daughters which gives the initial evidence of dysfunctionality within his family. Lear says," Which of you shall we say doth love me most?" This one line immediately sets off the argument that defines the play. Each of the sisters must tell him how much they love him to receive their share of the kingdom. When he does this, it forces conflict within the family. The two older sisters compete against each other to profess their love of Lear, while the younger one (Cordelia), the one who actually loves him, is banished from his life because she refuses to take part in the madness. This family is very clearly dysfunctional because they do not operate normally, with conflict and verbal abuse occurring continuously. Lear has a favourite daughter (Cordelia) who he then shuns based on her apparent lack of love for him. This is terrible parenting and makes the whole family dysfunctional. While the whole family is dysfunctional, this is almost entirely King Lear's fault. During the sisters' upbringing, Cordelia was the favourite, which made the other two harbour resentment for her and their father, Lear. However, this train of thought begs the question- where is the mother? If the mother of the daughters had been present during their upbringing, perhaps the family wouldn't have been so dysfunctional. This partially lifts the blame off of Lear's shoulders.


Similarly, in 'Pride' by Matthew Warchus, bad parenting results in a dysfunctional family when Joe's parents do not accept his sexuality. Joe's parents discover that he is gay when they find pictures of his gay life in his room. When Joe returns home, he is greeted by his father shouting at him and his mother crying silently. His mother then tries to manipulate him into being straight again. She says "It's such a terrible life Joe, it's so lonely... hiding from everyone at work... keeping secrets..." This is the epitome of a dysfunctional family, with Joe’s mother manipulating him instead of comforting him or accepting him who he is. This is evidently emotional blackmail from Joe’s mum, which leads to further dysfunctionality within Joe’s family. Joe had kept his sexuality secret from his family because he knew his parents would react in a negative to his being gay. Joe keeping secrets leads dysfunctionality within his family, but the dysfunctionality was already present, because he was afraid of coming out to his parents. Before His parents found out, Joe's brother in law was seen being homophobic, and throughout the film there seems to be a homophobic culture in Joe's family and neighbours. This fear of his parents finding out his sexuality made him be more and secretive and deceitful, which led to further dysfunctionality. Joe kept secrets because he knows his parents would react in negative ways to his being gay.





This dysfunctionality takes a different shape in 'Silas Marner'. Godfrey and Nancy love each other very much, but when they realise they cannot have children, the dysfunctionality begins to creep into their family. When Godfrey reveals his secret, the dysfunctionality in his family is both heightened and subdued. It is heightened because he had been keeping a secret during all their years of marriage, but also subdued because the secret brings hope of having a child at last. However, unlike the other families in ‘King Lear’ and ‘Pride’, they resolve their dysfunctionality. They try to adopt Eppie, but when she refuses, they accept their fate of never having children, and move on with their life. However, the Cass family once was much more dysfunctional than this. Before Nancy married into the family, there were arguments and blackmailing between the two Cass brothers, and like in ‘King Lear’ there was no mother. This is very important because a missing parent often leads to a dysfunctional family. In ‘Pride’ although both parents are present, the father does not seem to have any interest in his son’s life which can be just as bad. In the Cass family, both brothers were holding many different thigs against each other and threatening to tell their father, but when Dunstan dies, the Cass family is no longer dysfunctional which shows that the hateful relationship between Dunstan and Godfrey was the root of the problems in their family, which in turn stems from the fact that the mother is missing.



Dysfunctional families are prominent in all 3 texts, and at the root are often due to missing parental figures and squabbling siblings. In ‘King Lear the mother of the sisters is missing, and the sisters are divided and then turn against each other. In ‘Pride’ the father is effectively missing because he has no interest in his son’s life. Lastly, in ‘Silas Marner’ the mother of the Cass family is missing like in ‘King Lear’ and the siblings squabble just like ‘King Lear’. Although the families are all dysfunctional, the Cass family is the odd one out because they resolve their conflict, even if it takes the death of a family member to do so.

Idealistic and Realistic Theme of Family in King Lear




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In this essay, I'm going to discuss the realistic theme of Family in both "King Lear" and "Pride" and the reader's idealistic or realistic impression of this theme.


A realistic family is depicted in each text. In King Lear, Gloucester and his son Edgar are betrayed by his bastard son Edmund. Edmund always felt illegitimate and lower than his brother, this built up and insufferable rage inside him and caused him to turn his father against his brother. Edgar was the rightful heir to the role of Earl of Gloucester as he was the oldest and legitimate son. Gloucester showed favouritism to Edgar growing up. This was a realistic part of family during the Elizabethan period.  Gloucester turns on Edgar very quickly because he fears for his life, he is so perplexed that his first son was supposedly out to kill him. Later in the play Gloucester finds out is was Edmund who had deceived him and suddenly Gloucester has an immense sense of guilt and sadness as he realizes he turned his back on his own family.
In Pride, we also see examples of realistic family. Joe's parents still feel like they have partial control of his life and they get angry at him when he does something that they don't agree with. 






I noticed in all three texts that deception is a key theme. William Dane, Silas' friend, uses his habit of taking pity to play a cruel trick on Silas. He steals money from a dying deacon whilst Silas is having a fit. William blames Silas for what happened and Silas, a naturally trusting person is in shock. William who is supposed to be a man of God, deceives his close friend and as a result, Silas' fiancee leaves him and Silas is banished from the church. In King Lear we see that deception is a major theme. Edmund deceives his own father into thinking his other son Edgar is trying to kill him, when in truth it is Edmund that is plotting against them both. Edgar is like Silas in this situation, an honest man wrongly accused. 
Silas decided to leave his own country and people, like Joe in 'Pride' to move to a community that seems happy just 'like the gay community in 'Pride'

 I noticed that life is hard for Silas in Raveloe, as it is for Joe in 'Pride' and Lear in 'King Lear.Silas is gossiped about by children and adults a like.'Old master Marner looks like a wizard'. Cordelia may know how he feels, when her father gave her away but at least she had 'France', Silas has no one. Lear is eventually cast away by his two oldest daughters as he goes into a state of madness and confusion.


While all three texts have dysfunctional families, I noticed that they all treat it in a different manner. The Cass brothers, Dunstan and Godfrey hate each other. Dunstan is blackmailing his older brother because he knows Godfrey's secret that he is married in secret to a drug addict named Molly and they have a child. In 'Pride', Joe's parents make him feel bad about who he is. LGSM make him feel good about himself. In 'King Lear', Lear makes Goneril miserable, he curses Goneril and forces Cordelia to leave. Silas knows the power of healing with plants everyone at raveloe believes he is a wizard, like the characters in 'King Lear' they are superstitious which was a common trait for a person during this ancient time. In 'Pride', people are fearful of those who are gay. In Raveloe there is a great sense of community just like in Wales.

In 'Silas Marner' and 'King Lear' we see how the loss of power effects two different characters. Silas has a vast amount of gold which he had saved for 13 years, he feels a great sense of power and joy from holding the money. When the gold gets stolen, Silas is devastated. He accuses a man at the Rainbow of stealing it purely based on emotion. In 'King 'Lear' Lear starts off with power but he gives it all away at once and the lack of power drives him mad and he acts based purely on anger and hatred.




Comparison of DISGUISE amongst the three Texts.


The topic of this essay is based on 'disguise'. Alongside this Deception seems like the most prominent theme but behind this disguises like Kent's and Edger can open up opportunities for other subplots within the story. 


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There are two main parts in 'King Lear' were we see the Theme of disguise, we have Edgar and Kent.
both of them have changed their outward and vocal appearance to continue to serve the ones they are loyal too, even though they have been cast away by them before. Alongside this, both are using their disguise to protect themselves from a threatEdgar from his father and brother. Kent from Lear and his evil daughters. 


Why has Edgar picked this disguise? Maybe he had no choice, maybe he liked it. My view is the status of the disguise. On our daily journeys, we see people that are homeless and that are less fortunate than us and we don’t acknowledge their faces or who they are we just pity them and move on. I think that’s what Edgar is trying to achieve in this situation not only hide but not be acknowledged so he can stay closer to his father and his issues without being found out by either, his father or hid evil brother Edmund.
With Edgar's disguise, he was forced into it by his brother, Edmund, 

Edgar if framed by his brother Edmund and is left to flee the kingdom as the "Poor Tom" the beggar man.  Edgar has really gone to quite the extent to achieve this disguise. Edgar loves his father, but Gloucester doesn't see that. Gloucester sees Edgar as the son who planned to rid him of his rule of Gloucester. Edgar is trying soo hard to stay with his father cause he loves him but at the same the time he can't risk being found out as his father has yet to find out the truth 

Kent changes his appearance   Lear is in the middle of making his great decisions where he splits the land among his daughters. Kent tells Lear he is foolish and is immediately exiled from the kingdom. Although we know Kent cares about Lear as that is why he dares to speak out about him.


Lear also learns that his daughter Cordelia was the one who did, in fact, love him the most. Coincidently or not, these discoveries on the part of Lear and Gloucester make their characters almost identical and expand these characters at the same rate. The use of disguises on the part of Edgar allows Gloucester to understand who really has his best interest in mind as well as the case for Kent and Lear.



Comparison of Disguise amongst 'Pride', 'King Lear' and 'Silas Mariner' (20/04/2020)

Within Silas Mariner, there are not many events that suggest the theme of Disguise. but there is a small amount that stands out.
At the beginning of the text, Silas is framed by his long time friend William Dane, William disguises his actions by keenly choosing when Silas has his fit to steal the money from the box within the room. the theme of disguise here Is William disguise his presence, by entering the room when Silas is in one of his fits. This eliminates the matter of him being seen as both the elder, because he's weak and dying, and Silas has no way of knowing he was there. to back up the attempt of disguising himself, William also uses Silas's knife he had borrowed of him days before. by placing Silas knife at the scene of the crime furthermore decreasing his chance of being found out and turning the eye on Silas as the main suspect. following this at the sentencing Silas causes William and his placement of the knife. to which, William responds "I know nothing of what you mean" again denying the fact.
This use of disguise is used in the same way as Edmund is the text king lear. Edmund using the fact that hid brother Edgar has turned his back on the family, to cover up the plot he has against his father. to become the next Erl of Glouster. unfortunately, same again the odds are in their favour and those we know are innocent are left at fault. Edgar is left to take on the disguise of Poor Tom. again a literal disguise as described above within king lear.
What's so unite about this theme of hiding something with disguise travels across all there texts. lastly on behalf of this type of disguise is Joes "Pastry course" in his collage.
Within pride Joe finds himself with the LGSM team with Mark as the leader, they all become great friends, but joe knows his parents won't agree with this and effectively disown him (not literally). joe makes up a story so his parents will be happy for him, finding something he likes and follows as a career, 'Pastry Making'. this is most certainly not the case has he's hiding the fact that he is off with LGSM helping the minors. Joe really plays this one well, for the greater good now. joe goes to quite the extent. he uses stories and made-up events he is attending as well as bring home pastries for his family, this really seals the deal. or so we thought.


The other clear use of disguise is Eppie within Silas's home. eppies stroll inside the cottage, Silas is almost in shock, his brain sees Eppie as his long lost treasure, his gold that was stolen from him years ago. its this instinct of joy that Silas's brain resorts to its form of joy which in this case is the gold that was taken from him by Dunstan Cass.
This moment in Silas mariner reflects Kents disguise in King lear. both Eppie and kent are seen as completely different to what they truly are, kent is banished from the kingdom and is left without someone to serve. kent takes on a new disguise so lear can see him as a new person and take him on, once again, as a servant. kent knows this choice lear has made cant have a good outcome. so bt doing this it allows for kent to keep a close eye in lear, therefore allowing hit to be by his side when things go wrong.
Following up on this section on a disguise is Cliff from pride, Cliff is a Gay Man unwilling to tell his friends and family. Cliff has this because he is ashamed by current world views and wants his friends to see him as he sees them. To combat this he simply doesn't tell anyone. but some instances show he is unwilling to come out. throughout the movie, Cliff finds it hard to say the word "Gays" as he doesn't want to associate himself with that word in his attempts not to show that he is. summing up that he is betraying himself like the other, just like Kent and just like Eppied cloak of Gold.

Tuesday, 21 April 2020

The success and unsuccess of characters in king lear

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The success and unsuccess of characters in King Lear
The comparative text that I have chosen for this answer is King Lear written by William Shakespeare.
The character I am going to focus on in this essay is Edmund. Edmund challenges the cultural context of the time as he tries to gain power despite being a bastard son of the Earl of Gloucester.

Edmund challenges the cultural context as he is trying to take power from his father. This challenges the cultural context of the time as he is a bastard son. Being a bastard son meant you wouldn't inherit anything from your father, and this is what causes Edmund to do what he does. If Lear represents the old monarchy, then Edmund would represent the new order which wouldn't be so harsh on "bastards"

In the beginning of the play, Edmund creates a plan to get his brother, Edgar out of the picture as Edgar is set to inherit from Gloucester because he is his legitimate son. Edmund tells his father that Edgar was planning against him while in truth it is Edmund that is deceiving him. Edmund is successful in this as he tricks his brother into thinking that their father is angry at him, telling him he should hide from him. This deception is ultimately sets off a large chain of events in this subplot causing greatly tragic moments in the play. From this, Edmund gains a better relationship with his father, in hopes to inherit his title and wealth.

Edmund also is successful in gaining romantic attention from both Regan and Goneril in the play. As they are the daughters of Lear, this means that they have a lot of power which is exactly what Edmund craves. By flirting with both Regan and Goneril, Edmund attempts to essentially pit them against each other. We see how Edmund, despite being quite an evil character, is quite a complex and smart character too. His decision to play both the sisters means that they both fall for him, an are both prepared to give him anything that he wants. An example of the is when Regan's husband is slain. Edmund is discussing ideas with Albany when Albany explains how he is above Edmund, therefore no needing of his advice. This in turn angers both Edmund and Regan. Regan then gives her power to Edmund by claiming they are gong to get married. This is exactly what Edmund wants and this is his best, but final success in the play.

Question 2: Compare the success and unsuccessful attempts made by one main character in the challenging of the cultural context of the time.

Both "King Lear" and "Pride" have characters that challenge the cultural context of the time.
"Mark Ashton" is one of the main characters in "Pride" who challenges the cultural context of its time. Pride is set in 1980s Britain, and therefore it is not the most inviting place for a gay man. Mark Ashton is successful in his challenging of cultural context and becomes a well-known activist.

Mark is the founder and leader of the LGSM. This is an organisation created by lesbians and gays in order to support the miners. At the start of their journey the decide on helping a small mining town in Wales. Despite the fact that they are trying to help the miners, they are not welcomed with open arms due to their sexuality. At this time it was very hard in Wales. People were on strike and therefore had no income. In the little mining town the LGSM were visiting, people were living off of donations and rations. The population of Wales at this time are generally old-fashioned. This meant they were generally unsympathetic to homosexuals. Mark is successful in challenging this as by the end of the film, not only do the miners and the village accept him, but they support the gays by joining their protest march.




Comparative Essay on the Lasting Impacts of King Lear, Silas Marner and Pride

Arguably, one of the most impactful attributes to any story is the final scene or the ending. The ending is what we leave the story on, endings depicting a tragedy or loss would leave an disappoint, dreary or worrisome impression on the reader while ending depicting a comedic or hopeful departure to the story would leave a delighted or confident impression.

The stories of Silas Marner, King Lear and Pride leave fairly differing impressions on the reader through the ending. The two stories that I would like to compare are King Lear and Pride, these are two vastly different stories with a shared theme of family and loyalty but both endings leave differing, lasting impacts on the viewer/reader.

Monday, 20 April 2020

Theme of Deception: King Lear

                                        THEME OF DECEPTION IN KING LEAR

In this essay i will be talking about the theme of deception portrayed in William Shakespeare's play 'King Lear'.

The theme of deception is central in 'King Lear'from a number of characters.From the very beginning of the play we can see the early signs of deception among King Lear' family.  At the beginning of the first scene in the play(Act 1,Scene 1), King Lear decides to retire as king and give all of his responsibility to his daughters Regan, Goneril and Cordelia, but in order for them to be gain his wealth and power, they must tell him how much they love him."Which of you shall we say doth love us most?" The theme of deception comes into play here. Both Regan and Goneril both deceive him by telling him how much they love him just so they an be wealthy. His favourite daughter refuses to deceive him because she is honest,"So young my Lord,and true". .In result to this, he strips her of all her values and banishes her.

In Act 2, Scene 2, We encounter the first time Edmund deceives a family member, someone who you are supposed to be honest with at all times. Edmund deceives Edgar by telling him that he's in trouble and that he must flee. "Fly brother".Edgar being the gullible as he is, he believes his brothers lie and leaves.Right after Edmund deceives his father. He deceives him by cutting himself with his own sword pretending that it was his brother Edgar who had drawn his sword on him."Look, sir, I bleed!".
Gloucester believes his lies and is also deceived. He decides to go after Edgar with no proof that it was actually Edgar who had done it."Let him fly far". By Edgar being able to deceive his own family members so easily, he'd have no problem deceiving other members of the household to get what he wants.

Another case where we can clearly see the theme of deception is between Gloucester and Edmund.Gloucester has two sons, Edmund and Edgar. Edgar is the favourite son and Edmund doesn't like that. He is treated differently than Edgar who is favored by his father and destined to take his father's place."Lag of a brother?","Why bastard?"This resulted in him making a huge plan to take over England and be in power. He first deceived his father (Act 1, Scene 2), with a fake letter wishing to remove Gloucester from his place. Edmund deceived his father saying that it was his older brother Edgar had wrote letter. Gloucester believes him without question and instantly turns his back on him."There's son against father".Gloucester did not trust his own son and investigate for himself if he had supposedly done so.The way he comes around this problem causes him his own sight. If he'd not been easily been deceived by Edmund he wouldn't have to face the horrific consequences in the end.

Both Kent and Edgar both deceives others in the play. Kent disguises himself as a poor fellow so he can be a servant to King Lear again and Edgar deceives others by taking on the disguise of 'Poor Tom' so he too can hide being caught by his father. Kent deceives Lear by pretending to be a low class worker in Act 1, Scene 4. Kent explains to Lear what he can do for him."I am qualified in, and the best of me is diligence". Lear is satisfies with Kent and decides to hire him as a servant. Kent had successfully deceived Lear. Lear here can be seen as a gullible man which soon comes around to bite him in the end because of his choices.He is constantly deceived throughout the play by people most closest to him.
On the other hand, Edgar hides away and decides to deceive his father by disguising himself as a mad beggar  'Poor Tom' in Act 2, Scene 3".He transforms himself to 'Poor Tom' at the woods near his Gloucester's castle after being deceived by his brother Edmund. Edmund knew that the guards after him would not wait to arrest him."Does not attend my taking". He begins to 'preserve' himself from his father's guards after him. He chose to deceive his father by taking form of a mad man in a poor and filthy state to make his disguise more believable and more unrecognizable."To take basest and most poorest shape","My face I'll grime with filth". Edgar is put through the stress of hiding and disguising himself away from everyone because of his brother Edmund. Since Edmund deceived his father to go against his brother. Edgar is no longer safe around his own family as one should b, but you can also argue that it's his fault for having to go through this mess because he was so easily deceived by Edmund.


COMPARISON BETWEEN 'PRIDE' & 'KING LEAR'


Both 'King Lear' and the movie 'Pride' deal with the theme of deception.  In Pride the movie focuses around the life of Joe and his friends who are part of the LGBTQ community. Like in 'King Lear' Joe deceives his parents just like how Regan and Goneril deceived their father to gain power and status. Joe deceives his parents quite often to protect himself from hate and disgrace.Joe's parents do not know about Joe being part of the fundraising group 'Lesbians and Gays Support the Miners'. He deceives his parents by telling them he's doing a culinary course in college when he's actually out with the LGSM support group. Joe only deceived his parents to save him from the harsh words his father would pour upon him.Joe deceived his parents because he was afraid of how others close to him would react towards him if he comes out as a gay man. A similar case happens between King Lear when he asks his daughters to profess their love to him in exchange for wealth and higher status, both Regan and Goneril use this opportunity to get what they want, just like what Joe did. If comparing the reasons as to why Joe and King Lear's two daughters deceived their parents, we feel more sympathetic towards Joe more rather than the two sisters. Joe deceived his parents cause he was afraid on how they'd react if they found out he was a gay man. He wasn't ready to face that yet. Whereas in 'King Lear, both sisters deceive Lear out of selfishness and greed causing the audience to portray the sisters as unloving and uncaring.

Silas Marner 

Both 'King Lear' and 'Silas Marner' are both deceived because of money you could say.In Silas Marner we first see the theme of deception when Silas' 'William Dane' deceives the church community after framing Silas as the thief of the congregation money and like in 'King Lear' both Goneril and Regan deceive their father for money (wealth).He deceived Silas and the church to get what he wanted which was Silas' fiance Sarah. He was jealous of Silas. Like we see in 'King Lear' the sisters deceive their father by expressing how much they love him when they really don't but do it to get what they want from their dad which was money and a higher status whereas in 'Pride' we could also agree that Joe deceived his parents about him going into culinary school in return of him getting what he wants which would be happiness. He was happy being himself with the LGSM group because he could express himself to the fullest.  Godfrey also deceives his family about him having a family, just like 'King Lear', we can say that there is a common theme of deception within a family. Both cases deceive their parents and siblings. Godfrey deceives his family thinking that he'd start a new family with Nancy Lammeter when he already had a family with another woman, Molly Farren and his child Eppie. This later comes and bites him later since he disregarded Eppie as his own child only to soon realise that his new wife Nancy was not able to have children.

The theme of relationship in King Lear and a comparative piece between Lear and Pride

Part A  Theme of relationship in King Lear

Relationship is a theme found in this play in various scenes in the play King Lear by William Shakespeare. In this essay I will be talking about this theme and where it is found in this text Act 1.

The relationship between the father and the child portrayed in King Lear isn't made of love and understanding found in a normal father-child relationship that we normally picture. Rather it is a relationship of many faults and imperfections that ultimately leads to tragic events in the play. Act 1 focuses on two father-child relationships, King Lear's relationship with his 3 daughters and Gloucester's relationship with his two sons. Both relationships are seriously flawed in ways such as miscommunication and disaster led by thirst for power of the young and the susceptible fathers. However, most predominantly, the "King Lear" type paternal relationship with his daughters. 

In Act 1 scene 1 Lear wants to divide his kingdom into three parts, each for one of his daughters, he does this by choosing to have each daughter express how much they love him, and give the incentive of bountiful and more land to the one that loves him most.This plays a big role depleting the relationship between Lear and his daughters, as this type of father and child relationship is present in both Gloucester's and Lear's relationship with their children. The relationship shown is one primarily a relationship fueled by power and flawed communication between and elders and the young.

The next example of relationship found in King Lear is in Act 1 scene 1 and 2. When Cordelia mentioned she may not state her affection in terms, Lear disowns and relinquishes her, as he certainly does not receive the same public acclamation from Regan and Goneril's speech. Lear and Cordelia's relationship was born by Lear favoring  her to her two eldest sisters when she was born, because of this Goneril and Regans relationship with their father is non existent.

My final example of the theme of relationship found in King Lear is in Act 1 scene 5. The relationship between King Lear and the Fool is crucial to the development of the character of Lear and also to many themes in the play. Interweaving insightful commentaries with clever wit and language, the Fool, a loyal associate to Lear, offers an insight into Lear's mind. The Fool effectively gives to Lear a conscience, and highlights his goodness and self-realization as Lear is persuaded to lower himself to the level of another. The play starts with Lear effectively being the fool but gains wisdom and human experiences with the guidance of the Fool and learns humility, remorse and compassion. With the fool, Lear becomes a sympathetic character, identifiable as a human, and less as an ignorant king.

Part B Comparative Essay

In this essay I will be discussing the theme of relationship between King Lear and Pride. Each text reveals the relationships between characters and their families and how unnatural they are. At the heart of King Lear lies the relationship between father and child. Central to this filial theme is the conflict between man's law and nature's law. Natural law is synonymous with the moral authority usually associated with divine justice. Those who adhere to the tenets of natural law are those characters in the text who act instinctively for the common good (Kent, Albany, Edgar, and Cordelia).

In the primary plot, Lear betrays his youngest daughter and is betrayed by his two oldest daughters. In almost identical fashion, the subplot reveals another father, Gloucester, who betrays his older legitimate son and who is betrayed by his younger illegitimate son. In both cases, the natural filial relationship between father and children is destroyed through a lack of awareness, a renunciation of basic fairness and natural order, and hasty judgment based on emotions. By the play's end, the abandonment of natural order leaves the stage littered with the dead bodies of fathers and their children.

In the opening act, Lear creates a love test to justify giving Cordelia a larger share of his kingdom. Although his kingdom should be divided equally, Lear clearly loves Cordelia more and wants to give her the largest, choice section of his wealth. In return, Lear expects excessive flattery and gushing confessions of love. But instead, Cordelia's reply is tempered, honest, and reasonable custom dictates that she shares her love between her husband and her father. Just as soon as Cordelia fails to meet her father's expectations, Lear disinherits her. At Cordelia's loss, Goneril and Regan are quick to take advantage. They may have genuinely loved their father at one time, but they now seem tired of having been passed over in favour of their younger sister. After Lear states his obvious preference for Cordelia, the older sisters feel free to seek their revenge, turning the family's natural order on its ear. At the same time, Lear fails to see the strength and justice in natural law, and disinherits his youngest child, thus setting in motion the disaster that follows. Lear puts in place a competition between sisters that will carry them to their graves.

In a similar father-child relationship, the opening scene of King Lear positions Gloucester as a thoughtless parent. The audience's introduction to this second father has him speaking of Edmund's birth in a derogatory manner. Although Gloucester says that he loves both Edmund and Edgar equally, society does not regard the two as equal and neither does Gloucester, whose love is limited to words and not actions of equality. According to nature's law, Edmund is as much Gloucester's son as Edgar is; but according to man's law of primogeniture, Edmund is not recognized as Gloucester's heir.

In one of the initial pieces of information offered about Edmund, Gloucester tells Kent that Edmund has been away seeking his fortune, but he has now returned. Under English law, Edmund has no fortune at home, nor any entitlement. Edmund's return in search of family fortune provides the first hint that he will seize what English laws will not give him. Clearly, Edmund's actions are a result of his father's preference both legal and filial for Edgar, his older and legitimate son. This favouritism leads to Edmund's plan to destroy his father to gain legitimacy and Gloucester's estate. Again, the natural order of family is ignored.

Gloucester rejects natural law and a parent's love for his child when he is easily convinced that Edgar the son, he claims to love so much has betrayed him. Gloucester also puts his faith in Edmund's command of persuasive language, when he rejects the love his eldest son has always shown him. With this move, the earl demonstrates that he can be swayed by eloquence, a man-made construct for easy persuasion, which causes him to reject natural law and the bond between father and child. Edmund both ignores and embraces natural law. By betraying his father to Cornwall and Regan, Edmund's self-serving course of action abandons nature's order and instead foreshadows the Neo-Darwinist argument for survival of the strongest individual. His ability to survive and win is not based on competitive strategies or healthy family relationships; instead, Edmund will take what he desires by deceiving those who trust and love him. Edmund's greed favours natural law over man's law because natural law does not care that Edmund is illegitimate. He claims nature as his ally because he is a "natural" offspring, and because man's law neglects to recognize his rights of inheritance. But nature only serves Edmund as a convenient excuse for his actions. His actions against his brother and father are more a facet of greed than any reliance on natural law.

One might argue that Gloucester's cavalier attitude toward Edmund's conception mitigates Edmund's actions. When combining this possibility with Edmund's final scene, in which he tries to save Cordelia and Lear, Edmund clearly shows himself to be of different fabric than Goneril, Regan, and Cornwall. In many ways, Gloucester is responsible for what Edmund becomes. Edmund is as much Gloucester's son as is Edgar. In embracing the man-made laws that reject Edmund's legal rights, Gloucester is denying natural laws that would make Edmund and Edgar equal.

Gloucester also acts against nature in rejecting Edgar without enough proof of his wrongdoing; thus, Gloucester shares responsibility for the actions that follow, just as Lear's love test results in his rejection of Cordelia. Both men are easily fooled and consequently, they both reject natural law and their children. Both act without deliberation, with hasty responses that ultimately betray their descendants.

At the play's conclusion, Goneril and Regan's abandonment of natural order and their subscription to evil has finally destroyed them. The audience learns early in the final scene that Goneril has poisoned Regan and killed herself. Their deaths are a result of unnatural competition, both for power and for love. But Lear is the one who set in motion the need to establish strength through competition, when he pitted sister against sister in the love test.

For the audience, the generational conflict between parent and child is an expected part of life. We grow impatient with our parents and they with us. We attempt to control our children, and they rebel. When Goneril complains that Lear and his men are disruptive and out of control, we can empathize recognizing that our own parent's visits can extend too long or that our children's friends can be quite noisy. Shakespeare's examination of natural order is central to our own lives, and that is one of the enduring qualities of King Lear.

Similarly, to King Lear, in Matthew Warchus' 'Pride' has a major theme of relationships found. The movie opens with a character who is introduced to the audience as Joe and he is celebrating his 20th birthday with his mum. As the camera pans out, we notice that his father is in the sitting room watching TV not paying any attention to his son on this special day, even though we are not in the house we can feel the awkwardness. In a normal father-child relationship should not be filled with awkwardness and be uncomfortable, it should be filled with love and affection towards one another. The absence of this is clearly felt in this scene because as watch Joe try interacting with his father it is clear to see Joe's dad wants nothing to do with his son. This is seen in King Lear when Lear disowns Cordelia as when this occurs this scene is filled with an uncomfortable feeling of awkwardness and unlove for his daughter.



Correspondingly to Pride and King Lear, the theme of relationship is found in Silas Marner. Communities are constituted by human interaction. Marner and Eppie are a two-person community, as are Marner and Mrs. Winthrop. Larger communities include the socialites who gather at the Red House and the men at the Rainbow tavern. Raveloe is a community as well, of course, as is Lantern Yard. And each of these communities expresses its own form of social interaction, sometimes just, sometimes unjust. George Eliot's consistent point in Silas Marner is that the most rewarding human lives are tied up in honest, caring, and evolving relationships with others.

Silas Marner is the most obvious example of this theme. His shattering experience at Lantern Yard leaves him without a feeling of connectedness to a community. Upon arriving at Raveloe, Marner is treated with suspicion, and he lets himself become ostracized. For fifteen years he lives a near-solitary life. But even during this solitude Marner retains some tie to the community. Note that the reason he initially finds gold ducats so attractive is that they prove his usefulness to the people of Raveloe: they are cold, superficial, but real links between others and himself. With the arrival of Eppie, however, everything changes. His primary link to humankind becomes not a pile of metal coins stamped with human faces but a living, growing, communicating human being. Through the social process of loving and caring for another, and receiving love in return, Marner is integrated into the community. He finds friends; he finds his past; he finds faith-all through the open bond of human to human.

The relationship of Godfrey and Nancy exemplifies the troubles that can arise through a lack of healthy community. Although Godfrey believes that all his cares and woes would disappear if he could only marry Nancy, their marriage ends up coming short of both their expectations. Eliot is very clear about the reason for this: Godfrey does not cultivate an honest relationship with Nancy. He withholds the troubling secret of his parentage of Eppie from her for sixteen years. During this time, he does everything he can to live as though he has no secret, but he is disappointed again and again when he and Nancy are unable to have a child. Their barrenness symbolizes their unfruitful, deceptive relationship. When he later asks to adopt Eppie, he has made himself unable to declare his reason. His innermost feelings are intensely private, as all secrets must be, so he has become socially maimed. Keeping so much of himself a secret has made his marriage unhappy. When he finally does accept his responsibility to come clean about his past, he does not meet the redemption that Silas Marner did; the result is more disappointment. For him it is too late to cultivate his ideal community, and he must resign himself to isolation ultimately he will have to move on to a new community or family and start over, but even then, can there be another redemption like Marner's? Godfrey's lack of connection with Nancy, who wants nothing more than to love him, thus leaves him as isolated as Marner for about if Marner is isolated.

Ideally, as in the case of Eppie and Marner, society is a locus of mutual betterment and honest communication of social values. Eppie helps Marner see himself at his best; he blooms as she blooms. Other times, though, society reinforces one's prejudices and closes one's mind. Despite its advantages, community can be unjust. Some of the villagers of Raveloe are quite caring, quirky, likeable folks, but they are suspicious, rather ignorant, xenophobic, and racist. They blame a "swarthy, foreign-looking peddler" on the scantiest of evidence for the theft of Marner's gold, when the true thief is in fact a son of the "greatest man in Raveloe." Eliot does not strongly challenge the dangerous tendency to prefer insiders to outsiders, but she does emphasize it at times for our consideration. She suggests that human meaning making, for better or for worse, is caught up in interpersonal relationships. Silas Marner reminds us of the dark underside of community even while it generally focuses our attention on community's advantages.

In conclusion the theme of relationship is found very clear in these three texts and how each text reveals the relationships between characters and their families and how unnatural they are. 



Father and child relationships in King Lear, Pride and Silas Marner

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The theme of father and child relationships in' King Lear' is important in this text 

I will be discussing the importance of Father and Child relationships in 'King Lear' it is seen between Goneril and King Lear, Cordelia and King Lear and lastly Edmund and Gloucester. It is a constant and recurring theme in this play.

King Lear and Goneril have a very important father and child relationship in this play.While Goneril  is gushing to her father about how much she adores him in return he will give her his land, this is severely contrasted by the end of the play where King Lear has been thrown out and Goneril couldn't care less about what would happen to him.I personally think that this is a very negative relationship, King Lear has a favourite daughter causing his relationship to become strained with Goneril. She's treated quite differently to her other sisters as when they turn their backs on King Lear he seems to not be so harsh but he curses Goneril for the rest of her life. I think that this is because she is one of the last to reject him and he's genuinely hurt by this, King Lear is also very irrational and doesn't have very realistic expectations of his daughters. He expects Goneril to love him no matter how he treats her and how cruel he can be. But he changes, King Lear seems to be taking a metaphorical journey through the text and he seems to be humbled by his fall from grace he also sees who is willing to stand by him through the hard times, Goneril not being one of them. I think that in this relationship there is fault on both sides that they both have to hurt the other as badly as they themselves have been hurt. Their relationship is important in this text because they don't make peace at  the end like most of the relationships there is no act of forgiveness between them before they both die.

Another key father and child relationship in this text is between Cordelia and King Lear they have a very different relationship in comparison with King Lear and his other daughters he never tries to reconcile with them the same way he tries to salvage what is left of his relationship with Cordelia. This is seen in his last act before he dies where even though Cordelia is dead, King Lear still pretends that she is alive. In my opinion this is because he couldn't cope with the unbearable truth of his daughter being dead, Cordelia was the youngest child and clearly her father's favourite, this causes her to be alienated from her older sisters. King Lear is so distraught by the trauma of losing his daughter that he dies. In the opening scene he asks Cordelia to tell him how much she loves him when she refuses to do so because she sees it irrelevant and mean. That he should know how much she loves him already. King Lear despite all his actions and stupidity he really does love Cordelia but this costs him his relationship with his other two daughters some of his decisions can be seen as bad parenting. Throughout the text he is seen as quite selfish and mean but by the end he seems to have changed his ways although it is too late as he's about to die and all three of his daughters are already dead. King Lear despite all his bad decisions and cruelty but he does really love Cordelia. Throughout the play King Lear is quite selfish and mean but by the end of the play he seems to have transformed into a much kinder person but it's too late all three of his daughters are dead and he himself is about to die. In my opnion King Lear and Cordelia's relationship is arguably the most important Father and Child relationship in the text as she seems to really change him sometimes for worse.

One of the Father and child relationships in this text that seems to be different to the rest is Gloucester and his illegitimate son Edmund. Edmund is the result of an affair Gloucester had outside his marriage. At this time in society childen who are born outside of wedlock don't have any rights. Edmund always seems to be playing second fiddle to his father's favourite his legetimate son Edgar. Edmund decides to plot against everyone he becomes cunning and sy to get what he wants and take revenge for all his mistreatment. An example of their relationship is when Edmund so easily lies to Gloucester and tells him about Edgars fake conspiracy to kill him and that he was asked to join in on this plot to kill Gloucester he even goes as far to cut his arm to make this story more belivable. Gloucester easily believes him. Edmund does all this in an effort to gain control of his Father's land by cutting out his brother, what really amazes me is how easily Edmund is able to fool people and wrap them around his finger to get them to do exactly what he wants them to do. Edmund is especially cruel to his own father and as he feels that Gloucester is the root of his problems. This is a great example of a Father and child relationship in this text and really contrasts the other relationships  as they don't get a chance to reconcile their differences.

The theme of Father and child relationships in 'Pride


I will be discussing the importance of Father and Child relationships in' Pride' it is seen between Joe and his father. It is a striking theme in this text.

This is the only Father and child relationship in this text. In my opinion it's very interesting the relationship that Joe has with his father as throughout the text his father does seem to have the slightest interest in Joe until he hears about his involvement in the LGSM group. He doesn't seem to care about the way his son feels and is only worried about what other people may think.  An example of this is when Joe's parents find to about him being a key member of the LGSM group. In this scene there is no sound b and the camera zooms across the living room where you see his father screaming abuse at him. His father knows that he has really lost Joe when he leaves home a little while later. This shows how difficult it must have been for Joe having a father who had no interest in any of the good things he was doing but only to focus in on the negative things. Joe and his father don't seem to have anything in common, making it difficult for them to have a relationship. This relationship is quite similar to Cordelia and King Lear in 'King Lear' and Godfrey and Eppie in 'Silas Marner'. The thing that all three parents seem to have in common is that they abandon their children either physically or emotionally and don't seem to care what is best for their child and what would make them truly happy. This is a good example of a father and child relationship in this text.


The theme of Father and child relationships in 'Silas Marner' 

I will be discussing the importance of Father and Child relationships in' Silas Marner' it is seen between Silas and Eppie this is contrasted by Godfrey and Eppie. It is a constant and recurring theme in this text.

A lovely Father and child relationship in this text is one between Silas and Eppie. This is a real contrast of the relationship that she has with her real Father. Silas adopted Eppie when he found her near his house one New Years evening, he took her in and loved her as if she were his own child. At this time it would have been highly unusual for a single man to take in a child and be a Father by himself.  In my opinion it's a relationship of mutual happiness because Silas cares for Eppie when no one else is there and treats her well, Eppie brings Silas so much joy and seems to replace the void that was left by the money had but unlike the money she gives him love in return. It is only after Eppie arrives that we really see a change in Silas where he is truly content, Eppie also forces Silas to be more friendly with the locals of Raveloe and make an effort with them for her sake. An example of this relationship is when  Godfrey Cass tries to separate Silas and Eppie and take her for his own daughter as he wasn't able to have any children. Silas lets Eppie make the decision for herself even though he would be truly broken hearted if she were ever to leave him but Eppie chooses him over the wealth and luxury that Godfrey offers. This shows how much she loves Silas that she couldn't bear to live without him and she wouldn't be able to see him live in such pain. Eppie would be happier to stay and take care of her father and marry a working man. Silas also shows how much he loves Eppie as he would be willing to let her go and sacrifice his own happiness for hers but it shows that he trusts her to make the right decision for her. In all of the texts I have studied this is in my opinion the most heart warming Father and child relationship as they really do love each other.

A contrasting Father and child relationship in this text is between Eppie and her biological father Godfrey Cass. Throughout the text Godfrey is very selfish and cold hearted, he was willing to abandon his own daughter if it meant he could be with the woman who he truly loved. He didn't seem to think twice about his decision until it suited him. The relationship between Godfrey and Eppie in my opinion is very interesting as Godfrey almost doesn't see her as a person but an object that he can use and discard and later pick it up again. An example of this is when Eppie and ,Molly come to Raveloe to confront Godfrey that he's been hiding them but when Molly dies it seems for Godfrey that all his problems are solved in hindsight. Godfrey is delighted when Silas takes her in. This shows how callous and cold Godfrey is to his own daughter. Godfrey's actions this night will later haunt him as he wasn't able to have any children but he could have if he had of told the truth and just taken Eppie in that night. Instead he left her and thought it would be better not to acknowledge her so he could finally marry Nancy his true love and nothing is in his way anymore this is a really selfish action on his behalf. This shows even though Godfrey is related to Eppie it more or less means nothing to her and she finds true happiness with Silas similar to Joe in 'Pride'. This is a great example of a Father and child relationship in this text.

King Lear Themes Essay by Leif Erikson

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"Studying a theme or issue enables a reader to form both personal and universal reflections on that theme or issue."

Compare both the personal and universal reflections that you formed on a common theme or issue in two or more texts from your comparative course.

In this essay I will compare both the personal reflections I formed no a common theme or issue in the two texts I studied namely "Pride" and "King Lear" from my comparative course. There are many themes and issues in both "Pride" and "King Lear". Both of these texts explore themes in a manner that causes both personal and universal reflections on the themes or issues. One reflection I have formed is on the theme of family. In both texts there are examples of positive and negative family relationships. In "Pride" Gethin and his mother are estranged because she does not accept his homosexuality. Gethin tells Hefina this during Christmas in Wales and Maureen tells him that he should go and see his mother, which he does. Gethin goes to see his mother and he is nervous, his first words are "hi mum". Gethin  has reconnected with his mother despite their differences, Gethin's mother before did not respect his homosexuality but she and Gethin have reconciled and forgiven each other.
In "King Lear" we see the similar events occur. At the start of the play Lear decides to divide up his land among his three daughters Goneril, Regan and Cordelia. Lear asks each of his daughters to tell him how much they love him. Goneril and Regan blatantly lie but Cordelia refuses to do it and so Lear disowns her in a fit of rage. The king of France decides to marry her and Cordelia leaves for France. Later Cordelia comes back to England to save her father as Goneril and Regan have mistreated him. Cordelia meets Lear and forgives him for his mistreatment of her. Cordelia is also nervous when reuniting with Lear because she is afraid of what he is going to say just like Gethin and his mother. They both continue to love their parents despite their parents mistreatment of them and they both leave their parents. Both Cordelia and Gethin decide to forgive their parents and reunite with them. This is one reflection I have formed on the theme of family in "King Lear" and "Pride".

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In this essay, I will be comparing three texts that I have studied, "King Lear", "Silas Marner" and "Pride". I will be discussing a number of elements from each text; themes, cultural contexts and general vision-viewpoints (G.V.V's). 

A common theme across the three texts is that of dysfunctional families. In "King Lear", Act 1 Scene 1, Lear shows his arrogant and egotistical tendencies by asking his three daughters to quantify their love for him. "Tell me my daughters ... Which of you shall we say doth love us most?". This is a cruel test, especially considering whoever says they love him the most gets the largest portion of land.  Goneril and Regan lie to their father and tell him they love him more than words can describe. "... I love you more than words can wield the matter..." "... she names my very deed of love". Cordelia, however, does not comply with Lear's desires. "Nothing, my lord". Lear is livid and, in a fit of rage, confiscates her portion of the land he planned on bestowing her. This altercation demonstrates the dysfunctional  relationship between Lear and Cordelia at the beginning of the play






                    The role of Independence in King Lear

For my comparative course I studied the play "King Lear" by William Shakespeare. I studied the themes, cultural context and general vision viewpoint for this play. I am going to discuss the role of independence in King Lear. Independence is an interesting theme in King Lear. The role of independence is seen throughout the play in the characters.

Cordelia gains independence in the first scene. For example when she stands up to her father and refuses to tell him that she loves him. Lear is enraged and disowns Cordelia. People may disagree with my point because it seems as if she looses independence by her father disowning her. However I think she gains independence because she stands up to her Father unlike her other two sisters. She doesn't seem to care about wanting part of the kingdom where as all her two sisters want are power. We know that Cordelia does truly love her for example when she vows to 'love and stay silent' Father but doesn't like what he is doing. Her refusal to take part in the love test shows her independence and suggest a woman disenchanted by thee pomp and the pride that comes with royalty.

Edgar looses his independence in the play. For example when he has to take a new identity as tom because gloucester has disowned him and have sent out people to kill him. Edgar runs away to the forest and decides to take a new identity. Even though it may seem he might gain independence cause he has to depend on himself he has still lost who he was because he has to pretend to be someone else. In Edgar's soliloquy  he highlights how poverty can undermine human dignity as he decides "to take the basest and most poorest shape"  hides his identity by being poor mad beggar tom .This shows how he has lost his independence because he has to fight for himself, he doesn't have anyone else to help him and he cant show his true identity.

Likewise to Edgar, King Lear is also suffering. He is loosing his independence.  For example when his daughters take the kingdom of him and he is left outside in the wilderness with nothing and he looses his mind.  He didn't see through his daughters, he thought they loved him and that he would still have power even though he gave all his kingdom and power to them. He didn't see how evil and mean they could actually be. Maybe Goneril And Regan are only mean to him because he was never a good Father to them. They are treating him like he treated them. We never know how Lear treated his three daughters when they were younger but we can only imagine since we know that he has always favoured Cordelia over Regan and Goneril that it was always like that when they were younger. Goneril and Regan never got anything and were always second best to Cordelia so they are taking revenge on their Father now. Lear never thought he would loose Cordelia but now he has and Regan and Goneril don't need him anymore.


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The role of independence is seen in both King Lear and Pride. Both Cordelia and Joe show how they gain independence by being honest with their parent/parents and going against them. In 'Pride' Joe gains independence by leaving his family. After his parents find out that he is gay and his mum trying to blackmail him saying that being gay is just a sad life, Shan gives Joe the courage that he needs to leave his family. There is nothing wrong with being gay but Joe's parents are old fashioned and have different beliefs. Its sad that Joe's parents don't support him especially his Mum since he is the closest with her, the fact she tries to blackmail him into not being gay is horrible. Joe walking out is one of the most memorable moments in the play, it shows how much he has gained courage and independence. We can see by the expression on his face that he is happy walking out of the house we can tell he feels relief because his parents have been holding him back his whole life and now finally he can do what he wants to do. Which shows his independence.

Similarly in 'King Lear' Cordelia gains independence by telling her Father the truth and leaving him just like 'Pride'. Cordelia refuses to tell her Father that she loves him because she thinks it is wrong what he is doing. Lear is enraged and disowns Cordelia. He takes everything from her she is left with nothing however she doesn't seem to care that she doesn't have part of the kingdom she just wants to be happy. Unlike her two other sisters that just want the power where as Cordelia just wants her Father to know that shes upset with him. We know that she does love her Father because she comes back to him at the end unlike Joe in 'Pride' possibly he goes back to his parents in the future when they can accept him but we dont know we can only hope.She just doesn't like what he is doing for example when she vows 'to love and stay silent'. Her refusal to take part in the love test shows her independence and suggests a woman disenchanted by thee pomp and pride that comes with royalty. Being a woman as well shows her independence by sticking up to a man (her Father) who has great power.

Silas marner

The role of independence is seen in Silas Marner a lot. In all texts independence is seen when Silas, Edgar and Joe all leave their normal lives behind and start a new life. In Silas Marner, Silas is blackmailed and accused wrongly of taking the money by his supposedly best friend William Dane. Silas leaves Lantern Yard and decides to start his own life by himself which shows his independence we know this is hard for Silas to do he doesn't know anyone or even know where he is going and he is feeling hurt that the person that he thought he trusted would betray him like that all because he was jealous that Silas was getting married to a beautiful girl. Life is bad for Silas he has nobody, no one will come and talk to him because they think he's weird and that he is like a witch  we don't see that it is hurting Silas but surely deep down it hurts him. When he loses his money he truly feels like he has lost everything except something even better comes into his life something just like gold but even better. Eppie changes Silas's life for the better and shows the independence that Silas gains from being a single father in a poor life. Nobody thought he could do it but he managed to raise Eppie into a lovely woman. This really shows how much independence Silas gained through the years.

Similarly in 'King Lear' Edgar also gains independence in a similar situation to Silas. Edgar is blackmailed by his brother. Edmund tells their Father that Edgar is trying to kill him. It is hard for Gloucester to believe because Edgar is such a good son and wouldn't do something like this. However Gloucester takes Edmunds side and disowns Edgar. Edgar could be killed at any moment and runs to the forest where he takes on s new identity as 'poor tom'. This shows his independence because he has decided that he will just start a new life as somebody else hoping that he won't be found out or killed. He is all by himself and he can't tell anyone who he actually is not even his father when he is saving him when Gloucester wants to commit suicide by jumping off a cliff. His own son saves him but he doesn't even know it because he is blind. You could argue that both in 'Silas marner' and 'King Lear' that both Silas and Edgar lose their independence which they do as well but they gain more independence by starting new lives by themselves and growing to become better people and by helping people/loved ones.

In the film 'Pride' the role of independence is shown in a few characters.  For example we know that Joe gains his independence when he stands up for himself to his parents and leaves his home/his old life behind and starts a new life. The theme of new life is also similar to Silas and Edgar and their independence as well. Like Joe Gethin has also shown his independence by standing up for himself and leaving his home in Wales years ago. However we see the importance of family when Gethin goes back to his home in Wales that he hasn't been to in years and sees his Mother who finally accepts who he is because after all these years she can't change him but also she can't love him any differently the love doesn't go away. Even though Gethin already had independence by leaving his mother in the first place he still gains independence by going to see her again because he didn't know what the outcome would be, she could've just shut the door in his face and not talk to him but luckily we saw a happy ending for Gethin. because she finally accepts him. Hopefully one day Joe's parents will be able to do that too.